൮ഽٓն࿐࿐Б(ഠ߶॓࿐ϱ)JournalofCapitalNormalUniversity2009୍ᄹ़(SocialSciencesEdition)ႋႨྏ࿐࣮NLPิۚն࿐ളྏྟర༅ 夏春燕 崔丽霞ᅋ ေ: NLP作为一种思潮,文章浅析了NLP与各心理治疗流派的理论渊源,并结合NLP的理念与技术,逐个分析NLP对提高大学生心理弹性的有效性bܱՍ: NLP神经语法程式学;精神分析;完形疗法;认知行为治疗;家庭系统疗法;心理弹性ᇏٳোݼ:G44 ໓ངѓ്:A ໓ᅣщݼ:1004-9142(2009)ᄹ़-0172-07 NLP-(Neuro-Linguistic-Programming),ࠧЧି֥ᆷႄbപࣜეمӱൔ࿐ࠇӫቔദྏეӱ࿐,ఏჷႿNLPᄝమၩ്ٚ૫҆ٳӵਔࣚപٳ༅֥ૅݓ֥ࡆᇜն࿐bਆ໊Է৫NLPപࣜეمӱൔනམ,ਆᆀಪູమၩ്ᇏऊࠢਔದ֥ྸ؟ྏ࿐֥ૅݓದࣼ൞Ұ֤#ϫ֣ী(Richardିਈ,ᆃུྏିਈ߶ၛె֥ٚൔ,ࠞնֹധख़Bandler)აჿݩ#۫ೋ֣(JohnGrinder)bభᆀֹ႕ཙದૌຓᄝ֥ეࠇྛ,ູطᇶุ၇ಖѩ҂ᇶྩӱ࿐,ުᆀ൞ე࿐Ѱൖ,ၹູᆽ֡ކ,तᆩbದো֥؟ඔྛູ൞Ⴎమၩ്ᆦ֥,ၩ၂ఏ࣮ؿᅚNLPᆃ࿐໙b്ؓྛູ֥ᆦཌྷؓႿమၩ,്ᆺ൞ѢԛඣNLP൪࢘ห,ྏ࿐൪့ܼ,ٗაྸ؟ྏ૫֥၂࢘bNLPࣉطϜაమၩ്֥๙ิശ֞ᇍਏੀஊႵሢંძჷ,ࠇනམഈ֥৳ࢲbਔ၂۱ྍۚ؇bݖಀࣚപٳ༅ᇍਏഽᇶေ൞๙ݖaሱႮ৳མ֩ඌ,మၩ്֥ת༆ၩ്߄,၂aNLPა۲ྏ࿐ੀஊ֥ძჷՖطᇗࡹট٠ᆀ֥ᄪ୍֥ྟྏ൙ࡱؓఃགྷᄝളࠃ֥႕ཙ;NLPಪູॖაమၩ്ࣉྛ๙,Ֆط NLPაࣚപٳ༅ᄝࣚപٳ༅ਏمຓ,ᅳԛਔ၂۱۷ऎԷᄯྟ֥ٚࣚപٳ༅֥Էದڠઌ၇֣൮༵ิԛਔమၩم,ေહᇍਏഽࠆ֤ট٠ᆀྐުაఃమၩ്,്ಪູమၩ്൞Ⴎྸ؟൳ၝ֥ԊބЧିቆ๙,္ॖಞট٠ᆀሱ࠭ࣉྛሱ๙bӮ,మၩ്֥թᄝႮྸ؟ൌဒࡆၛᆣൌbࣚപٳܱႿమၩ്,ࣚപٳ༅აNLPቋն֥҂ᄝ༅ᇍਏ֥ଢѓ္ࠧ൞/ಞమၩ്֥ת༆ၩ്߄0,Ⴟమၩ്֥ݺߊٚ૫bNLPಪູమၩ്৯ਈऍᆭު,ದࣼॖၛࣉྛሱႮ࿊ᄴط҂ᆺ൞၂ֹ൳ն,ೂ၂۱ݺఅႻฃທ֥ݙሰ,ሹ൞ᄝູᇶದ࿙൬۠ರ௹:2009-11-02ቔᆀࡥࢺ:༱Խဉ,୯,ݱ,ࡾ්ၒྖದ,൮ഽٓն࿐࣮ള;աৡ༩,୯,ଽܞޫބݽหದ,൮ഽٓն࿐ྏ༢ڬ࢝൱,࢝ტ࿐Ѱൖb (Кࣘ 100048)172
༱Խဉ աৡ༩ NLPิۚն࿐ളྏྟర༅ቋژކః০ၭ֥ྛູ,Ⴅჹ҂߶ႵഄݝЧದ֥NLPაಪᆩྛູਏمࠏ,ऎႵ/ቋࡄ࿊ᄴ0ࠏᇅ(ᇏႍ,2003)bࣚപٳದ࠻Ⴕྟ֥ᆞಒ֥නॉ,္Ⴕ٤ྟ֥༅ᄵಪູమၩ്൞ྸ؟൳ၝ֥ԊބЧ,ି൞౷֥නॉbοᅶέغѯห#η০ථ֥ܴׄ,҂൞҂Фഠ߶෮ࢤ൳,֥෮ၛᆺႵᄝሦ࿘ᆃᇕӆކᇏ,൙ࡱA,ط൞ૌؓ൙ࡱ֥ଽྏࢳބྐB,Ҍၩ്֥ת༆ၩ്߄bNLPऎุ֞ԩᄝଖᄯӮૌ౦࿂ྛູഈ֥ಠbᄝ20ൗࡀ50୍ս၂ࡱ൙౦ഈ,ေᄝ٢֥ൈީ༵ࢤ൳మၩ,്ӵಪᄪ௹,η০ථሸކದЧᇶၬaྛູᇶၬਏم,Է৫֥ቔႨ,აమၩ്๙,๙ൈေ؟Ⴈ/࿊ᄴਔྟ౦࿂ਏم,ၹՎФუູಪᆩྛູਏمᆭڳbओ0,ط҂൞/൞٤ओ0bࣼཞૌࣜӈაཬݙ๙ਸ਼၂໊ಪᆩྛູਏم֥༵౺൞іൕέ#Нक़bൈ,ေҐႨݙሰ๐֤֥ე,/൞ေԬᆃࡱޣᄝሱ֥࠭ਢԵൌᇏ,ؿགྷၝკߑᆀႵۿି၉ڛߎ൞ᆃࡱ၉ڛ0,ݙሰࣼ߶ۚۚྖྖֹԬാט֥ྐაࡌഡbᇍਏ֥ଢ֥൞Ϻᇹট٠ᆀᅳഈ,ᆃაᆺ۳ෲԬ၂ࡱ࿊ק֥၉ڛ,఼ᇅෲԬԛᆃུ٤ྟ֥ྐ,ѩაᆭѐં,ࣉطႨۿିྟഈི֥ݔ൞҂֥bᆃіૼቍᇗෲ,۳ਔෲሱྐট౼սbުট֥࿐ᆀϜη০ථ֥18ᇕ٤ᇶ֥ಃ০,ѩႄ֝ෲࣉྛ࿊ᄴbྟྐ݂ࢲູնো,ࠧ:धؓ߄ေaݖٳۀওNLPა۬ൔෳਏم(ປྙਏم)߄ބᄦᇀࠞbNLPಪॖ۬ൔෳਏم֥ᇶေܴ,ׄࠧՎൈՎNLP္ಪູૌૄ۱ದႨ၂สࡎᆴ༢఼ֹטሱ֥࠭ᄳބิۚۋᆩb۬ൔෳਏمؓটࢳ෮ؿള֥൙ࡱb൙ࡱЧট൞ᇏ৫֥,ࣜݖNLP֥႕ཙޓնb۬ൔෳਏم఼ט۱ุᄝՎൈದ֥ࢳҌэӮႵ০൙ࡱࠇ҂০൙ࡱbࡎᆴ༢Վख़ԉٳุဒሱ֥࠭ۋ൳ބሱ࠭ᆞᄝቓહb๙Їওྐ(Beliefs)aࡎᆴܴ(Values)ބ่ܿ(ݖิۚሱҳत৯,ॖট٠ᆀཨԢଽྏ৯ਈ֥Rules)bऎุটඪ,ྐ൞൙౦ႋھᄸဢ,ӈӈބቅᇌ,Ֆطִ֕ദྏ,ղ֞ᆜbNLP္ܱᇿགྷ/ႋھ0/сྶ0৵ᄝ၂ఏ;ࡎᆴ൞ቓᆃࡱ൙౦ॖၛᄝ,఼טট٠ᆀڵఏሱӮӉ֥ᄳ,ਔࢳሱ֥࠭ջট֥ݺԩ;่ܿ൞ቓ൙౦֥ٚൔbૌ֥ྐቋᇔଢѓ൞હ,ႄ֝ቓԛղ֞Վଢѓ֥۷؟༢൞ᄝૌ֥ӮӉݖӱᇏᇯࡶྙӮ֥,ߎᄝ҂ٚمބࣥ,/ُ൙Ⴕᇕࢳथٚم0,Ⴕ࿊ᄴб؎ֹэ߄ᇏbᆞೂྟ౦࿂ં၂ဢ,ཋᇅྟ֥ી࿊ᄴ఼,ྟֹ࿊ᄴቋႵིੱ֥ٚمބࣥbྐ္նਈթᄝሢbNLPӑᄀປྙਏم֥൞,NLP҂ࣇܱᇿ֒NLP఼טေٳྐაࡎᆴܴaྐა่ܿ༯,္ႄ֝ট٠ᆀಀुໃট,Ⴈໃটԉડ༐ຬ֥႕֥ᇗေྟbቓ൙౦֥ٚൔ൞؟ᇕ؟ဢ֥,ࠧ൞ཞ՜ఃႵ෮ྛ,൮༵ᄝଷᇏԷᄯໃট႕ཞ,ཌྷࡎᆴ္൞ॖၛԷᄯaᄹࡆބሇ၍֥,ྐೂྐӮۿ߶ೂ௹طᇀb൞,֒ࡎᆴэਔ,ྐࣼॖၛঔԉaྩᆞമᇀປಆNLPӵਔປྙਏم֥၂ུඌ,ೂᇕሑᄠൈ၍षb,൮༵Ֆ֒൙ದ֥࢘؇ಀुa๐ބۋ൳໙ี,ᄜNLP္ܱᇿಪᆩڿэ֥ᇗေྟbაྟՖ֥ؓٚ࢘؇ಀुa๐ࢤԨљದ֥ۋ൳,ᄜၛྐ౦࿂ਏم֥҂ᆭԩᄝႿ,ުᆀᇶေ൞࣯ᆞۿି֥ದࠇᇆᆀ֥࢘؇ิԛؓ֒൙ದ֥၂ུࡹၰbປാט֥ಪᆩ,္࣯ࠧᆞૌ֥҂ކන;ົభᆀ఼ྙਏمಪູ,۱ದԛགྷ໙ี൞ႮႿႵ၂/ུໃປӮט๙ݖࠒ֥ࠞՍ,ႄؿଽᄝ֥၂༢ਙэ߄,ଽ҆൙ࡱ0,ቅθਔ۱ุ֥࿃ӮӉაؿᅚbNLPਏ֥ࡎᆴܴaྐ֥ڿэ,ຓ҆ྛູڿэ;ࢤሢຓ҆مമᇀ҂ླေ֒൙ದඪԛ൙౦֥ປᆜࣜݖ,ᆺ൞ྛູ֥ڿэ,ᆺေࡔӻ၂؍ൈࡗᇗگ,ࣼିྙӮಪູ൙ࡱބ౦࿂൞ିܔٳष,ڿэ౦࿂֥թԥ,Ⴈ༝ܸ,ቋᇔӮࣼଁᄎbᇏྟࠇࠒ֥ࠞ౦࿂ಀูս҂ਅ౦࿂,Ֆ൙ࡱॖၛಪᆩਏمᇏ֥ྛູ҆ٳႵޓ఼֥Ҡቔ,ྟྛಞૌႵ෮࿐༝֥࢘؇,ಀڿཿݖಀbູऎႵࢠ఼֥ᆷ֝ྟѩऎႵൌིbNLPޓ෮ၛ,NLPࣼ൞ᄝಆ౯Ӑ֝ࠒࠞྏ࿐֥ࣂᇗ൪ྛູڿэ֥ቔႨ,ᆜุݖӱᇏྛູఏ֞ᇏ฿,ᆌؓ௴๙ದषؿమ,ିิۚྏྟ,۷؟ࢺቔႨ,ეڿэ(ྛູ))ۋतڿэ)))ྐڿ࿐ളऎႵ۷֥ۚࢸ,Ќӻুܴष֥౦࿂,ঔնэ)ྛູڿэ)؇ڿэ)ଁᄎڿэbྏӵ൳৯,ࠧᄝ૫ؓྏ৯ൈ္ିቓԛࢠNLPაࡅ๖༢ਏمݺّ֥ႋbࡅ๖༢ਏم൞ྏ৯࿐ஊaྛູᇶၬ173
༱Խဉ աৡ༩ NLPิۚն࿐ളྏྟర༅࿐ஊބದЧᇶၬ࿐ஊն൝৯ᆭު֥/ֻඹ൝(),ิശ࿐ളሱۀ৯0,սіሢྏሦ࿘აᇍਏଆൔ֥ᇗնڿэbࡅ(),ࢆ֮࿐ള֥ࢊ੮ิശ๖༢ਏمٳᆦᇙ؟,ᆃᆺіؓNLPӁളᇗն࿐ള֥ሱቍ(JorgeVillalobosDelaMora,2008)႕ཙ֥ࡅ๖ਏمਵთ֥նഽڠࠝୄ?ิbႵࠒ֥ࠞቔႨb/ದದ֩,ದࢥႵࡎᆴ0൞ิᱦק֥ದؓႿႵྏ໙ี֥ದ,൳ݖNLP֥؋௹ളྐbෲԷਔ၂สྏᇍਏٚم,ఃࠎЧ,ࠧॖႨটଔڿ֥ࣥ,ࡨ౦࿂ބྛູᆡඌႵࡅ๖ᇗෑa૫ષ߶a๙גෑaམ,֩ࡼྏሑ,ิۚࠒࠞൡႋି৯,ᄹࣉྏࡲूbؓႿીႵᇍਏঔնູӮӉ౼ཟ֥࿐༝ӱ,۱ุମᇀᆜྏᅰθ֥ದط,NLPॖၛϺᆜކଽྏି۱ࡅ๖ॖၛՖᇏ൬ࠆሱӮӉაమିषؿbਈ,࿐༝ದ࠽๙ె,پڶࡲू֥৯ႋؓҦ(ဉ༩,2007)ၹՎ,ิФუູ/ቋն֥ᇍ,Ⴕֹིᄝགྷൌߌᇏ࿙ؿᅚ,ԉٳീᅚమਏഽ0,൞/ૄ۱ದ֥ࡅ๖ᇍਏնഽ0b,ିൌགྷሱࡎᆴbҰ֣აϫ֣ীᄻაิކᇷ5Changingᇏݓ္Ⴕ࣮ᆷԛ,NLPିࠞնֹϺᇹն࿐withFamilies6(1979)၂,ധ൳ิეڄ۬ྍളڿఃྏൡႋྟ(ӱ,2006)bն࿐ྍള֥႕ཙ,Ϝิ֥ሦ࿘ᇏ෮Ⴈ֥ე݂ࢲູ၂ಸၞԛགྷ֥໙ีႵ(1)མࡅ౦࿂୩ި,Ⴕാઋۋ;ᇕଆൔ)ࠧקეଆൔbຖ֥࿐ᆀϜुቔ(2)҆ٳ࿐ളႮႿ࿐༝ଢѓ,৯,ؓնਈሱ൞၂ᇕഈa༯్ࠣѩྛ֥ٚൔbऎุটඪ,ิ໙Ⴎᆦ֥ൈࡗ҂ᆩ෮ծ;(3)ದ࠽ܱ༢ԩ҂;֒ඪ߅֥ଢ,֥Ϝഈശ֞၂۱ၩၬҪ૫ࠧഈ;(4)҂߶ҍ,ಌكྟཨٮܴbNLPՖ۱్༥Ӯऎุ֥ྛ,ູࠧ༯్;ߎႵູղ֞ཌྷଢჰೆ൭,(1)/ֹ҂֩Ⴟൌ࠽ࡿთ0,ေ૫ؓགྷ,֥ఓൕߎႵଧུྛ֥ቓمbҰ֣აϫ֣ൌ,࿐߶/ॿ0,ࣉྛනົ(2)ᇗቆ;࿐߶ದ࠽๙ীߎԷᄯྟ֥ิԛ/ე႕ཙപࣜ৳ࢲ0,ૌॖٚൔ,აሱ࠭๙,აದ๙;(3)ეॖၛᇗෑၛ๙ݖڿэე,ಀԢཋᇅྟ֥ྐ,็ᅞሱ֥࠭പࣜຩ৳ࢲ,࿐߶ඪ߅;(4)/ఙཋᇅྟྐ,ᇕᇕሱᄳބ,ቋᇔྙӮ༝ܸbᄹ఼ࠒࠞྐ0,ᇅྏਲֹ;(5)/ીႵാϧ,ᆺNLPაࡅ๖ਏم҂֥ᄝႿ,ުᆀᇿᇗႵّঌ0,࿐߶گᇅӮۿbࡅ๖ߌა۱ุྏ֥႕ཙ,طNLP۷ཌྷྐದ൞Ⴕ࣮ᆀࢲކNLPაඌؓ࿐ളࣉྛሱ࠭ളࠃ֥ህࡅ,ૄ۱ದऎСሱ࠭Ӯۿॹু֣ტ࢝ტ(ဇਪ,2005),ᄹ఼֣ტ࢝ტི֥ݔ,֥ሧჷ,఼ט۱ದ֥ڿэॖၛࠆ֤၂ᇕّঌ,ّঌࣉྛषԷྟ֥࣮bࠧ൞ؓགྷҐႨٚم֥ิൕ,۱ದ֥ڿэႄఏ༢֥ڿэ,۱ದӵքఏሱ࠭ᅶܤሱ֥࠭ᄳ,۱ದaNLPิۚն࿐ളྏྟ֥Ⴕིྟٳ༅֥ڿэമᇀॖၛ႕ཙᆜ۱ࡅ๖༢b ሱ2000୍ၛট,ၛۄყ՜Ӯྏྟ֥࠹߃ؽaNLPႵܱ֥۲োႋႨ࣮ٚσބ۽ӱཛଢббࢥ൞bႵ࣮ᆀؓն࿐ള֥ྏྟቔਔಆ໊֥ٚ NLPሱՖഈൗࡀ70୍սᄝࡆᇜն࿐֏ളၛܙ,Ⴈᅧ॥ۋaܱ༢ۋބ౦࿂ّႋ۱ٳਈі,,ުႵܱNLP֥ൌᆣ࣮ॖ໌൞ഒᆭႻഒb֤ԛն࿐ള֥ሹุྏྟห(ׄᦨྮࢭ,2008)bSharpley(1984)ؓNLP֥ൌᆣ࣮ቔਔ၂ሹࢲ࣮ཁൕն࿐ള౦࿂ّႋ఼؇ѩ҂ෛ୍֥ࠩഈശྟ֥߭ܤbՎ໓ངؓၛສ໓ང֤ԛ֥ࢲંิԛႵᇉ֥э߄,ն࿐ള֥౦࿂ᇆିaದ࠽๙ބࠒࠞਔࠫׄᇉၐ,ૌ֥ࢊ္ׄࣇअཋႿؓNLPᇗေൡႋି৯Ⴕրิശbളࠃэ߄aկᅼބܺԬંᆭ၂ଽۋܲࠇႪ༵іᆘ༢֥ဒᆣഈ૫bႿᆜ۱ളଁӱᆭᇏ,طն࿐ᆞೂηक़೦෮ӫٮਔ҂ഒᇛᅼ,гᆀҰ֤ਆࠎႿNLP֥ႋ/֥ྏߏӊڱ௹0moratorium,ն࿐ളေ๙ݖႨ࣮bႵ࣮ᆷԛ,ᄎႨNLP֥ඌაؓሱ࢝ტa࿐༝၂༢ਙܱ,ିՖطିࡹ৫ఏۚႿิۚ࿐ള֥ე༝֤(JorgeVillalobosDelaᇉਈ֥ഠ߶ބ۱ದളࠃbMora,2008),پڶ࿐ള֥ႋؓٚൔ(JorgeNLPඌିՖ؟ٚ૫ิശն࿐ള֥ྏVillalobosDelaMora,2008),ڿഽള๙ࢌੀྟඣ,ೂ࣯ᆞಪᆩ)/ૼϢڵ૫౦࿂֥ᆞ૫ၩ174
༱Խဉ աৡ༩ NLPิۚն࿐ളྏྟర༅ၬ0,ิശሱྐބᅧۋ)/ᄹเ৯ਈ֥ె0,טಠ,҂ିሱϙbNLPਏمႨྐ(Blieve)aࡎᆴܴࢫ౦࿂a٢৯/֥ᇯ҄Ԏم0ބ/ࡨم0,ڿ(Value)ބ่ܿ(Rule)ࠧྐ༢(BVR)টࢳದ࠽๙)/ۋᆩ໊ᇂޙم0ބ/ॺඖم0,ᄎದؓຣ൙ຣ֥ԩ؇bૌૄ۱ದૼϢ,Ⴈ/Ԋྐವކم0ղ֞ሱᆜކ,ิശሱૌمڿэຓ૫֥ൗࢸ,္҂ି॥ᇅљದbཌྷࡎᆴbؓႋ֥NLPඌႵ/ߐॿم(Reframing)0,ޅຖ࿐ᆀཡ໓࢝൱ಪູྏྟႮၛ༯۱൙ࡱႵఃթᄝ֥ၩၬ,ႄ֝Ֆ҂֥࢘؇ബࠎЧ֥ၹሰܒӮ(්Ꮽ༶,2006)bૌٳљ൞:ၹ൪ᆭ,ุ߶֞νתୄ.અџ෮ඪ֥/ُ൙сႵضႿሰ1(ऎႵႩଏۋѩؓ൙ࡱିՖ҂࢘؇ܴᆭ);ૌ0bၹሰ2(ෙᇂദկᅼ౦,ಏିࡼሱა౦ቔൡ(4)ߐॿمई২:؇ٳ);ၹሰ3(ିሱಪ,іགྷԛ৫ބ॥ᇅ1./ၹູᄝ൮ഽഈ࿐,෮ၛބഈౢ߄Кն֥ߌ֥ି৯);ၹሰ4(ؓሱބളࠃऎႵଢ֥ྟ࿐бఏট,ۋ֞ޓկϧ0bބໃট֝ཟ֥หᇉ);ၹሰ5(ऎႵཟߌࠇ৯ٚم:Ϝओᇏ/֥ݔ0ڿູ֥ཌྷّՍ,ᄜϜ็ᅞ֥ି৯);ၹሰ6(Ⴕਅݺ֥ഠ߶ൡႋె);ओ൮/֥ၹູ0ਆሳ٢֞ቋުbၹሰ7(ࢠഒ఼ט۱ದ֥҂,ྜྷկᅼაࡎᆴۋࠇۋ֞ᆒٹ,෮ၛ۷ࡆ୭৯,ၹູေᆣ৯ۋ)bૼ௴๙ն࿐֥࿐ളဢିӮۿbၛഈ֥ၹሰٳљุགྷਔྏྟඣ֥ۚၹູေ൮ഽᄝۄ୍ުၛႵᆃဢ֥ದᄝᅧ॥ି৯,ܱ༢ᆦӻބ౦ۋᇆିٚ૫ႋऎС࿐ളູb֥ି৯ބెbNLPᇏनႵඌॖၛิۚaڿၹູေ/Ш༵٦0,ၹሰ֥ି৯,ၛ༯ᅣࢫࠧ൞ؓNLPิۚն࿐ളॉೆ௴๙ն࿐ᆺ൞ದളᇏ֥၂,҄ᄝೂࣂྏྟູޅႵི֥ٳ༅bರၭ؟ჭ֥ഠ߶ᇏ,ؓದള֥؇Ҍ൞ܒӮྏྟ֥ૄ۱ၹሰିᄝNLPᇏᅳܱb֞ཌྷႋ֥ڿٚم,༯૫၂၂༥ඍᆭbႵ۷Ⴊਅ֥іགྷb٢Ⴉଏۋ,࿐߶ߐॿ൫൫็࿊၂่त֤ቋݺ֥,ಖުϜᆜ۱ओ(1)Ⴉଏ൞ದൡႋߌ֥۽ऎ,൞ದো૫ਢሰّگֹࠫђbᄜჰট֥၂ओbଽྏ֥ۋൈߏࡨࣚപބྏ৯֥ٚمbೂ࿐ളഈतႵᄸဢ֥҂?ଧओत֤۷ൽڛ၂ׄ?ဆࢃ,ېഈဆࢃࣼିቓ֞గקሱೂ֥൞ഒඔ,؟2./ၹູഽޓ,۬ࣜӈሂ࿐ളࢃज़,෮ၛඔದಸၞ૫ޣطԅ,ၹሢࠤϜଽಸອוਔbᆃൈૄഈज़ᨌᨋ҂ν,ޓໆऔ0b֥,҂ٞሱյ౿ֹඪ:/ᅟᄝᆃ,ᆇ൞ࠗഈज़֞ࢃ,ෙႵׄࣅᅦ,҂քྏ,ၹਔ,֥ࠗ߅ඪ҂ԛট,,0,Ѱ֤ܴᇙၩູቓਔնਈ֥ሙСbཱ֥ല,ࢤሢӆଽగٲఏਔэ߄,ඪ҂קࣼିᅳ֞ၹູؓᆃ၂ଽಸႵׄሱ֥࠭མم,ॖၛሑ,ඨ০ࣉྛဆࢃਔbิԛট,ಞ࿐၂ఏษંb(2)ႩଏۋՖޅطট?NLPಪ,ູᇭೂႩၹູᄀটᄀሱ,ྐؓၛު҂ܵՖ൙ଏaႧగaԷᄯ৯֥֩ؿߨ൞Ⴎૄ၂۱ದ֥మၩ്હ۽ቔ,ࡼյ༯၂۱ਅݺ֥ࠎԤbڵᄳ֥bطNLPಪ,ູమၩ്൞ॖၛ๙֥bೂၹູज़ถగٲ۷҂ਔ,࿐ࡗ۷Ⴕୠޅაమၩ്๙?൮༵ေ٢bቓധޫ་,ޫగऊ৯bൈϜᇿၩ৯Ϝᄝਆ۱࡚Ͻഈ,ᄝྏଏ٢,ѩၹູᆃ൞ྍ֥ࣜဒ,ष٢,ਲࠃ൞ૌᆃϜᆃᇕ٢֥ۋतથ֞ദุ۷؟֥҆ٳbః၂սದ֥หᆘbՑ,ေᆇӴֹۋ྆మၩ,്֒Ⴕ༏۳ൈ,ႋၹູᇯࡶ༟ߋᆃᇕٚൔ,࿐ࢃ֤ݺ,ඪ؟྆bᄜՑ,๙֥ٚൔ,໙߅ေ؟ҐႨؽࣉᇅႵྸ؟ֹٚॖၛࢹބ࿐༝;ሱ࠭ࢃൔ,൞ࠇ҂൞bൈ,ႵུಌׄބરѨ,ഽ࿐ᆷԛު,(3)ؓ൙ࡱିՖ҂֥࢘؇൪ᆭ,ྟ౦࿂ࣼିࢃ֤۷ݺਔbਏم၂ᄜ఼ט,౦࿂ࢲݔC҂൞Ⴎ൙ࡱAᆰࢤ֝3.࣍টӉ,෮Ⴕ֥॰ሰཬ,҂ކദ,ᇁ,ط൞ؓ൙ࡱ֥ुمࠇྐB,Ҍദཊკોਔ!175
༱Խဉ աৡ༩ NLPิۚն࿐ളྏྟర༅ݺਔ!Ⴛॖၛઙྍ၉ڛਔ![ྟႻӫሱಪ(self-identity)]֥ൈ௹,ؿᅚ֥4.ීച࿐ᄪഈఏ֤ݺᄪ,ඤ҂Ӯবतbༀ൞ࡹ৫ሱ၂ྟބٝᆸሱ၂ྟࠁbීച࿐ᄪഈఏ֤ޓᄪ,෮ၛ္҂ඤবಪ,ູሱ၂ྟ൞ᆷౝഒ୍ؓሱ֥࠭Чᇉaྐत,ၹູ,,ဟބ၂ളᇏ֥ᇗေٚ૫భު၂ᇁࠣࢠປ֥ၩ૫ؓկᅼ,౦࿂ڿم,്္ࠧ۱ದ֥ଽ҆ሑაຓ҆ߌ֥ᆜކބླྀկᅼ౦߶ႄؿದ֥ڵ૫౦࿂,ڠઌ၈֣ᄻט၂ᇁb၂۱ሱಪݺ֥ದ,ࠧႵሱࡎᆴ֥ඪ,կᅼ౦ႄؿ֥౦࿂,іགྷᄝຓ,൞ؓದ֥ದ,߶іགྷԛሱྐaሱιaሱቍbᆇᆞႵቀܔሱྐ۾ࠌ,ྟіགྷᄝଽ,൞ؓሱ֥࠭ാຬაټ୮bದള֥ದ,൞ંაહದཌྷԩ,ؓٚ߶ۋ֞ሱಖ,҂ೂၩᆭ൙,Ⴕϖࣴ,ೂ҂ؿ྄ᄝљದദ֤֥֞ቍᇗ,ൈ္ؓٚ߶त֤ႋھ۳ᆃ۱ದഈ,߶ࠞնֹߊದ࠽ܱ༢;طധധֹၝ,߶ቀܔ֥ቍᇗbطሱࡎᆴ҂ቀ,ࣼ൞ࣂ฿ഠ߶ದၝკbᇕᇕ۱ದ໙ี֥ࠎЧ۴ჷbໃିؿᅚԛԉٳࡎᆴुఏটཞ൞ૌ֥౦࿂ԛਔ໙ี,൞҂൞ႋ֥ದ,ေહ൙൙ᆚ఼,ᇿᇗ૫ሰ,ܣၩቓ᧓ဲ৯ਈھϜᆃোڵ૫౦࿂ಀԢו?֥൙,ܣၩິّܿק,აսіಃ৯֥ದቔؓ;ေહ/၂Ϯದ༝ܸਔؓրڵ૫౦࿂ᆺႵਆ۱ٚم:ԩԩ෪aஃӵքᄳ,ъ֮љದ,ၞӦᄝྴ҂൞ၝࣼ൞ؿቔ,ఃൌഉႵཨԢa߄֎aᄎႨބൗࢸ,,bކ֩ٚم,ສສᄝིݔഈбభ૫֥ਆ۱ٚمُՎᇕᇕ൞۱ದ֥/མൗࢸ0ა/གྷൌൗ۷ݺ0bࢸ0ᇗ҂ླྀטࠇ҂໖ކ,ᇁଽྏ؛ᇗᇗ,۲ᇏႍഽᄝ1988୍ؿᅚԛট֥၂۱ᇕଽ҆৯ਈཌྷఠӛ,ଽݻ,іགྷᄝຓࣼ൞৯ਈ҂ె)))ᇏ໓ᇏ/ّϧ഻ູم0,гᆀ۷ౠཟႿႇቀ,ಌك৫,ݖႿ၇ঠ,ཨ֥ࠞൡႋߌطم໓֥ሳ/Wise-MeProcess0bNLPᇏNսіᅧ॥,ቋᇔӮູߌ֥།വbNeuroപࣜ,ิൕૌՖଷപࣜ࿐֥࢘؇ಀु,NLPᇏႵ၂۱ᇷ֥ెӫ/ູԊྐವૌնଷ֥భحွ҆ٳ൞ڵᄳනॉaٳ༅aࢳथ໙ีކم0(conflictresolution),ህԩଽྏ֥؛,֥൞આࠠනॉ֥ᇏྏ;౦࿂ᇏྏ൞ᄝݚઔ,२ջބԊbᇏႍ༵ളႻࢹՎؿᅚԛ/ࢤ൳ሱ࠭م0߭ބшჸ༢b֒ದმ֞կᅼൈ,ଷӮཞඌཁބ/ሱᆜކم0b֒൙ದଽྏႵ၂۱൳ഄݝ֥ཬൕ൞ଷᇏӁള౦࿂֥҆ٳ٤ӈࠃᄁ,طభحွ҆ݙ,ေહሱᄳ,ေહᄳܯљದ,ሹ൞ࣜӈԛٳᄵཌྷؓ࣡ᆸb൙ൌഈ,նଷ֥ࠃࠏᇅ൞ࢌট,აሱ࠭ݖ҂ಀ,/ࢤ൳ሱ࠭م0ࣼ൞ၛགྷᄝ֥ၝᇅ,ೂޅభحွࠃఏট,ط౦࿂ᇏྏཌྷؓ࣡,၂۱۷Ⴕି৯a۷Ӯඃ֥ሱ࠭,ಀڢ໎ଽྏ֥༏༯ট?ཬݙ,தத,ࢳ,Ⴈეड़ק,/གྷᄝ൞/Wise-MeProcess0ࣼ൞ିభحွᇗྍࠃᄁ၂۱ն࿐ളਔ(ิྜགྷᄝ֥ሑ),ಞགྷᄝ֥ఏট֥၂۱ెbնᇁቓم൞༵ಞ֒൙ದԛགྷಀुुପ۱ᇹ֥aႼཬ֥,߶Ⴕུહ߅ေ/౦࿂֥0,ౢ൞ޅᇕ౦࿂ѩܙ࠹఼؇bᄜಞۡු0bಖުᄜۡු࿐ུྍ֥ె,ؿᅚԛྍ/ᇆି֥0ԛགྷ,࣍ᄝᝧԄ,Ⴈଷ৯ࠗ֕مളӮ۷֥ି৯,ಞݖಀ֥ཬݙაགྷᄝ֥ሱ࠭ᇗྍކؽູ؟ٚم,ѩӴय़ֹۋ྆/౦࿂֥0ؓሱ֥࠭ᅶܤ၂,э֤۷ປᆜa۷ॹুa۷Ⴕି৯b/ሱᆜކބྌ,ಖުग़గֹ໙:/ູਔᆃՑ(ཬ)ॖၛم0ᄵ൞ᅳԛሱ֥࠭ലၻ֥ᆞ૫ࠏ,ႄ֝ᆃᄝᆃࡱ൙֤֞۷؟۷ݺ,ॖ҂ॖၛ౨ᄠൈᅟᄝܢ৯ਈაሱ֥৯ਈཌྷࢳa҂ᄜԊ,ղ֞ವ၂க,Ќᆣުಞ߭টb0ࢤሢતતࣉ/ೆᇆି֥ކbᆃਆᇕెᄝࡹ৫ሱྐྏ,ࡨሱЙྏٚ0,ࣉྛധޫ་,ࠆ֤aุ߶ѩࡆ఼ᆃᇕႵ৯ਈ֥૫ޓႵϺᇹ,ࣉطႵᇹႿ۱ุؿᅚԛ৫aބؓߌۋतbቓՎҠቔ֥ݖӱᇏ,ᇗေ֥൞ཌྷྐ֥మ֥॥ᇅି৯bၩ്,ა๙,ཌྷྐູ߶࿊ᄴቋݺ֥bބమु֞ໃট,ᇿᇗޙၩ്๙ൈ,༵࣡༯ট,؟Ⴈπൕე,ၛय़్ᆞೂNLP֥ࢊׄ൞ࢳथ,҂ധট٠ᆀݖಀ֥؇؟ड़ק,؟ۋ྆b֥໙,ีط൞ె֝ႄ֒൙ದಀुૼ฿,නॉሱ࠭ᆜކሱ,ิശሱྐམૼ฿߶Ⴕᄸဢ֥҂bϜଢѓऎุ߄ູႵሢ൪ն࿐ളᆞԩႿήक़೦෮ඪ֥ฐ෬ሱ၂तa๐तބۋत֥༥ࢫ֥ॖ൪߄࠺ၫbಒקଢѓ176
༱Խဉ աৡ༩ NLPิۚն࿐ളྏྟర༅,ުᄜᅳԛሱ࠭གྷᄝ൞ᄸဢ֥,൞҂൞གྷᄝ֥ૄ၂ࢹე࿐ᇏౄଚථࠎ֥ሇߐളӮეم,ٺྛႵᇹႿପ۱۷ݺૼ฿֥ൌགྷbႄ֝ಪNLP္ಪູეႵധҪࢲܒބіҪࢲܒᆭٳ,്ሱ֥࠭ି৯,Ӈ൫ᅳԛ҂֥࿊ᄴ,ၹطਲࠃֹധҪࢲܒ൞ଽྏധҪ֥ၩ,ඪԛট֥ეڿэሱ࠭,ڿэሱ࠭ؓ൙ࡱ֥ुمaቓم,ѩԷᄯ໓ሳ൞іҪࢲܒ,၂۱ധҪࢲܒॖၛႵ؟۱іҪԛ۷ࡆམ֥ૼ฿bࢲܒটіղބೂ၂࿐٤ӈᇿᇗದ࠽ܱ༢,࿐Ⴕсႋbᄝ࣮ປྙਏم֥ሷഽPerlzބࡅ๖ᇍਏնഽෲམᇛଌݺݺ࿐༝,ಏϜൈࡗᄝத࿐ഈࢧܓSatir֥ᇍਏ۽ቔᇏ෮Ⴈ֥ეె֥ࠎԤഈ,ؿ;ູવפู࿐ॉӉ,۞֤স৯҂ඪ,ߎหᅚԛNLPቋᇗေ֥ెᆭ၂/קეଆൔ0সപ,ູቓა҂ቓଽྏ֥ᆚॖ໌ࠗਛ;ഠࠃ(TheMetaModelofLanguage)bݖ؟,ၛᇀીൈࡗ࿐༝,ਢ࣍ॉ൫,ࢊ੮ᆰཌഈശקეଆൔಪູეॖၛෑᄯනॉ,ᇶ֩֩bႋႨഈ૫֥ٚم,ࣼॖၛ໙໙ሱ࠭:/૨఼ֹಀ็ᅞሱ࠭ᇕᇕᇹaሱᄳa৯֥ეՊหᆘ,ሱ࠭த࿐ܓ,ู࿐ॉ൫,َҕࡆഠࠃ҂ູე෮ࠈ,ؿᅚૌౢ༉නॉaࡐჩე֥,ᆃུቓم֥Мުམ֤֞હ?0/ູ࿐ڛି৯bڿэეࣼॖၛڿэሱۡᆩ֥ଽಸ,Ⴕༀ,۞ݺದ࠽ܱ༢0,/ԩݺ࿐ܱ༢,ߎႵఃིනॉ,ᇗቆଽྏൗࢸ,ՖطᄝනམބྛູഈႵ෮۷ݺ֥Ϸمગ?0ቋުᆃ໊࿐૫ਢ҂౦჻த࿐ڿэbܓࠇูљದսൈ,ෲ္ॖ࿊ᄴᆇӴֹۡᆩሱקეଆൔӈᄎႨഈؐ༯్֥࿘໙مbഈ֥࠭མم,ᄝҕࡆഠބ࿐༝ഈ,ᇿᇗൈࡗ֥ٳؐ൞ิശᇀྛູМު֥ࠏҪ૫(ധҪࢲܒ),༯,ղ֞ޙ,ՖطିႵ၂۱ԉൌطپڶ֥ն࿐్൞Ϝଆ҆ٳэ֤۷ౢ༉ࠇु֞֩ၩၬ֥ఃളࠃb࿊ᄴ(؟ᇕіҪࢲܒ)bဒე,৯ܵൡႋა๙ཟߌࠇ৯็ᅞ֥ି৯,္ࣼ൞іགྷູ۱ྏൡႋྟᇶေᆷ۲ᇕ۱ྟหᆘཌྷކఏದؓߌࠇ৯֥ᅧ॥ି৯bNLPಪູॖၛཟট,ൡႋᇛຶߌ֥ି৯b၂۱ದିڎ࣐ॹֹൡሱ࠭࿐༝ၘႵ֥Ӯۿࣜဒ(νልࣜဒӝࠇᇗേႪႋྍߌ,ିڎԩݺگᄖaᇗնࠇາࠤ֥ห൹౦ਅሑ),ࠇଆٟఃӮۿ֥ದൖ(ࢹ৯م),ߎॖঃ,ა(ෲ)֥ྏൡႋྟ֮ۚႵޓᆰࢤ֥ܱ༢bࢹეটڿэሱ࠭ؓߌࠇ৯֥ᅧ॥ି৯(طؓႿૌն࿐ള,ࣉೆն࿐֥൮ေༀ൞קეمބπൕეم)b࿐༝,ൡႋն࿐֥࢝࿐ٚൔ,ࠧೂޅ۷Ⴕֹི࿐(1)νልࣜဒӝࠇᇗേႪਅሑ༝?NLPᇏؓᇶေۋჭٳোؓહဢ֥ದൡކૌૄ۱ದႵቓݖሱ࠭หљό֥൙,ೂહဢ֥࿐༝ٚൔႵ෮ఓؿbૌᄝӮӉݖӱଖՑॉ൫ӑӈؿߨ,ࠇቓԛਔᇗေطӮۿ֥थק,ᇏ,҂ሱ࿐ֹྙӮۋჭொݺ,ࠧ:൪त(නॉൈငࠇല౦ѩ֥ဆࢃ,ᆃᆣૼૌЧദၘऎႵ෮ླࣕ؟ཟഈ)ुa๐त(නॉൈငࣕ؟ᄝᇏࡗ໊ᇂ)֥ି৯bνልࣜဒӝࣼॖၛϜૌᆃᇕଽྏ֥ିބۋत(නॉൈငࣕ؟ཟ༯)ुࠇሸކb҂ਈэ֤۷ಸၞิ౼ބෛԮෛ,֞ෛൈࣉೆ֥ቋ֥ۋჭொݺथק҂֥࿐༝ো:൪त֥ದொࡄሑbݺᄇ,ಸၞ๙ݖ൪तіའ༢ࠆ౼ބࡆ۽ྐ༏,(2)ࢹ৯مᄝ࿐༝ൈေᄝଷᇅᄯཞࠇژݼ,Ϻᇹ࠺ၫ;๐NLPᇏ֥Pսіӱ,ଷӱॖၛگᇅ,त֥࿐ളொݺ๐ࢃ,༟ݺ๙ݖ๐तіའ༢ࠆӮۿॖၛگᇅ൞NLPᇗေ֥ᆭ၂bՖᆃ۱౼ބࡆ۽ྐ༏,؟Ⴈ໓ሳቓනॉ,ᇿᇗ࢝ა࿐֥ؿᅚطট֥ెࣼ൞ࢹ৯مbᅳԛགྷᄝቋྟ,ज़ถ๐ࢃིݔࢠݺ;طଽۋत֥ದ,නॉӈླေᄹࡆહ৯ਈ(ሱྐa࣡aႧగaਲࠃ֩),ѩෛۋतሼ,ؓ༟ߋज़߶࿐֤ޓݺ,༟ߋᄝቓᇏ࿐,ᅳԛಪູऎСᆃٺି৯֥ದট,མཞᅟ৫֥๙ݖԨतaۋतіའ༢ࠆ౼ބࡆ۽֥ྐ༏ႆའረ൝ބ૫҆і౦,๐ܝৣ֥ലၻ,ѩؓඪ:۷ധख़bਔࢳሱ֥࠭ۋჭொݺ,࿙ᅳൡކሱ֥࠭/ླေ֥Ϻᇹ,མᄹเି৯,౨ଢ଼٢ྏ,ᆃٚم,ࠇሸކᄎႨ؟ᇕٚم,ิശ࿐༝ིੱbٺି৯҂߶ၹٳཚࡨഒb0طა൪त֥ದ๙ൈ,ႋႨౢ༉ࡥ؋֥ओ(3)קეمބπൕეمሰ,ѩႄ֝ಀु;ა๐त֥ࢌੀൈ,؟ሹࢲ177
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